In the past few days there seems to have been a change in Carson. He has gotten more aggressive and mischievous. All of his rough playfulness has been squarely focused on Miss Kate. More specifically, her feet.

This week alone Carson has started to kick, hit, squeeze (with his arms, like in a death grip!), and bite. Yes, bite even though he doesn’t have teeth yet. Well I guess since he doesn’t have teeth, it would be better to describe it as gumming.
Anyway, the dynamic between Kate and Carson has always been the same. Carson wants to play with Kate, Kate ignores Carson.

This was literally their first photo taken together after birth (in the NICU). Kate is looking off in total indifference to the boy screaming in her ear, and Carson is screaming because Kate was yanking on his feeding tube. During that first encounter, Carson never really stopped looking at her, and he tried sucking on her fingers and shoulder. Kate wasn’t having any of it. My mom jokes that it’s because Kate still remembers how Carson starved her in the womb and kicked her so hard in the chest that she has a permanent toe imprint where her cleavage will be one day (that will make for an interesting story, eh?).
And it’s always been this way. Carson wants to cuddle and play with her. Sometimes she will humor him by sticking her hand in his mouth while they laugh, but most of the time she is planning her escape route.
Now Carson has stepped it up a notch. He is so focused on getting to her feet that it’s truly hilarious. If he is lucky enough to get to them, he will hit them, bite them, pull on them, etc. Kate kicks like crazy and screams. (Her feet are painfully ticklish like mine.)

Carson eyeing her feet while Kate is helplessly strapped in her bouncy seat.
I am not sure what to do about it. On the one hand, I want them to work it out on their own (if that’s even possible at 7 months old). Kate needs to learn to defend herself or play along. Carson isn’t hurting her (at least not yet), but he is using his greater size and strength to his advantage.
More often than not, I find myself pulling them apart. As soon as I do, Carson is immediately trying to roll back to her and she is desperately trying to roll further way from him.
I thought twins were suppose to be playmates for life. I hope this is just a phase that they grow out of…soon.

Carson biting/gumming Kate while she pretends he isn’t there.
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